Do you go with your head... or your heart?


Going back to school to do what you love.


There are many reasons that nontraditional students go back to school after a break of however many years. Many want to have a more secure job, or one that pays better. Others want to do something entirely different after already having one or more careers.

Some others want to give back, or help others. And other people want to move up in their career. They may have been in this career ever since high school or even before.

Are you going back to school right now? You might be thinking about your reasons for being back in school. For instance, do you have a choice about what you are taking?

And then there is the time element. Do you feel like you need to hurry back OUT of school so you can have a steady paycheck and start paying down debts? Perhaps you just want some courses, or to go back for a year or two, NOT four more years. Perhaps your family is not supportive, so the faster you finish, the better.
The reasons people are in school (or stop being in school) are many.

I know I've thought about these things - time, money, and what I wanted to do when going back to school. I chose to get get out of school sooner, rather than later, and use all the courses I have had in the past as possible towards my new career (being a teacher).

I have another two years I can go back to school and get loans for it. But I am not sure anymore whether learning in a traditional way, and trying the same teaching job again would be best.

What I have learned... do NOT to go for the easiest route (getting out faster vs. going for what you would like better).

I know taking another 2 years (or however many it will take) of school is daunting, but I would say if it's a choice, to go for the subject or job that you love more.

Do you go with your head... or your heart? Or do you try to go with both? What is your nontraditional student story? Let me know by commenting below.

Nontraditionally yours,
-Betsyanne


Some Nontrad links: The Nontrad site and blog Join Nontrads on Facebook Nontrads on Yahoo Nontrads on Twitter

A Nontraditional Student Thanksgiving 2010.

Here are some things nontraditional students can be thankful for this year:

1. They are going for their dream.

2. Though they may not have lots of money right now, many nontraditional students still can celebrate Thanksgiving with their family.

3. Some nontraditional students who are going it on their own can get a thanksgiving dinner on campus. That is SOME.

4.  Nontraditional students who are taking classes know that they won't have to go back and say to themselves someday, "what if??"

5. Nontraditional students have almost finished up the semester.

Have a wonderful Thanksgiving, nontraditional students! 

Oh - and do COMMENT after this post, and let other readers know how you are doing in school, and what you have planned for Thanksgiving too.


-Betsyanne

PS Another Thanksgiving posting: Via NPR: Who is Missing from your Thanksgiving table?

Some Nontrad links: The Nontrad site and blog Join Nontrads on Facebook Nontrads on Yahoo Nontrads on Twitter 

This photo of the Thanksgiving Square Chapel in downtown Dallas, Texas USA is by Schlusselbein2007/John McStravick.

50+ Great Nontraditional Student Sites and Blogs

I put an asterix (*) in front of my nontrad sites and blogs so you know which is which.
 
Included here are nontraditional student blogs about going back to school, websites with great links for nontrads, free access to scholarship applications, and a lot more. I hope you like them too.
They are broken down into categories, Social websites, Scholarship websites, Nontrad and Continuing Education sites, Nontrad blogs, Study Skills Sites and Articles, Encouraging and inspirational websites, blogs, and pages, Career Sites and blogs, National and International groups, Computer tutorials, and Online Learning and Other Resources for Nontrads.
Social sites and forums - get connected!
*Nontrads on Facebook – my site, currently 269 members.
Nontrad Law – the intelligent law student community. A forum for law students. http://www.nontradlaw.net/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=postlist&Board=1&page=1.
The OldPreMed forum site:  http://www.oldpremeds.org/fusionbb/index.php? - this forum is part of a website for the National Society for Nontraditional Premedical and Medical Students, Inc. They have conferences too!
This page also includes links here: http://www.nontradlaw.net/links.html and more.
The Nontraditional College Support Group – started by Toni Washington Bradley.
A support group and sounding board too.
*Nontrads on Yahoo – 252 members. Discuss your issues, get information:
 The ANTSHE Facebook group – connected with the ANTSHE website. 275 members. Discussions, links, more.
The Deb Peterson Facebook page: http://www.facebook.com/AboutContinuingEducation. From the site: “Continuing Education at About.com, part of The New York Times Company, explores the myriad ways we return to school when we're past age 25 -- to finish a degree, earn a GED, get certified, or pursue lifelong learning. Should you go back to school?”
The Deb Peterson Twitter page: http://twitter.com/Continuing_Ed. From the Twitter page: “About.com Guide to Continuing Education. Read a book! Formerly Deb Gruebele.”
*The Nontrad Twibe on Twitter – here is a place to post Twitter postings plus join a group too. See what other nontraditional students and schools are saying about nontraditional issues. http://www.twibes.com/group/nontradstudents
And, if you are not already connected with them, try Facebook, Twitter, Digg, and Stumbleupon for some fun new sites and friends, or interesting articles and news.
Scholarship websites
The Fastweb site – free scholarship search services, articles, and more. http://www.fastweb.com/
*The Nontrad Scholarship page http://www.nontradstudents.com/scholarships.html. This page has lots of free scholarship sites and resources on it. Page 2 is here: http://www.nontradstudents.com/scholarships_page2.html
Nontrad and Continuing Education websites
The About.com Adult Ed Pages by Deb Peterson
Loads of information and links.
Sophie Maddox’s adult college information site
*The Nontraditional Student website – help and support for all nontrads.
http://www.nontradstudents.com/.
The Financial Aid blog – on College Scholarships.org. A great article site with tons of information and resources. http://www.collegescholarships.org/blog/
Nontrad blogs – meet new nontrads!
The Nontraditional Student blog – I started this when I was going back to school.
http://non-traditional-students.blogspot.com/
Reaching Lifelong Goals as a Nontraditional Student: by RedFokker, a history major.
Student Mum – a mother going back to school in the U.K. http://studyingparent.blogspot.com/ From the site: “Mature, or non-traditional Post-Graduate student studying Victorian Literature at the same time as trying to run a home with one teenaged daughter, pre-teen twin daughters, two elderly cats and a husband who appreciates the limited attention he gets from me after doing all that!”
Sweet Sue – a nontraditional student from Oregon. Her site description: “I am the mother of three adult children and the grandmother of five little ones... see more at the site. http://pregnantkatiesmom.blogspot.com/
Study Skills sites and articles
How to Study – recommended by RedFokker on his website
Study Hacks – “strategies for building a remarkable life” - for readers of all ages.
Study Guides and Strategies by Joe Landsberger – this is the ultimate study guide site. Everything from learning styles and research to test prep. You will love this page. http://www.studygs.net/.
The USearch Blog – advice on picking colleges and applying.
The 6-hour D and how to avoid it by R. Dewey. http://www.psychwww.com/discuss/chap00/6hourd.htm
The Deb Peterson About.com Continuing Education pages – everything from articles, polls, advice, other links and sites by Deb Peterson, Continuing Education Guide.
http://adulted.about.com/
Older Nontrad Student – written by Zickbee. From the site: “40something student, Mom to three human children and two canine children, Arizona ‘native’, collegiate basketball fan.” http://oldernontradstudent.blogspot.com/
Rantings of a Middle-Aged College Student. http://traveling-thru-time.blogspot.com/
From the site: Brandywine - Missouri, United States. Heirloom gardener, chocoholic, bookworm. Full-time employee, full-time student. History major with a Spanish minor. I love words, I love history, and I love heirloom tomatoes, not necessarily in that order. I enjoy blogging and meeting new people through blogs (and in real life, as well).
Encouraging and inspirational websites, blogs, and pages
Wabi Sabi – The Beauty of Imperfection
My mom’s motto! This is chapter one of a book by Robin Rice, whose Facebook page I have listed here too.
Robin Rice’s Be Who You Are Facebook page
Robin features postings by many interesting people, and inspirational sayings and websites. This site is very interactive, with many chances to chime in on conversations.
The Dalai Lama’s Facebook page – learn about compassion and forgiveness, and lots more here.
The Awesome Power of Goal-Setting – Ten Tips for Triumph – from the About.com Human Resources Page. http://humanresources.about.com/od/performancemanagement/a/goal_setting.htm
GED Stories – stories by actual people going back to get their GED. You can comment there too and give advice. http://www.passged.com/stories/
Positive Thinking Radio – from the site: “Listen to the sound of your dreams on Positive Thinking Radio.” http://positivethinkingradio.com/
“It’s never too late to stop procrastinating” – from the WebMD site: http://www.webmd.com/balance/guide/its-never-too-late-to-stop-procrastinating
Mishka the Husky dog says I love You. Sure to put you in a good mood! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qXo3NFqkaRM
Career sites and blogs
Career Alley – (from the site) “Career advice, job search advice and job search site reviews.” Lots of great articles are here too.
National and International groups
ANTSHE – (from the website) The Association for Non-Traditional Students in Higher Education
http://www.antshe.com/. You can join as a student group or an individual.
The National Society for Nontraditional Premedical and Medical Students – read about the 2010 conference here, which was in Chicago. http://www.oldpremeds.org/
*Nontrads on Twitter – Twitter pages. http://www.twitter.com/nontrads.
*Nontraditional Students – http://www.twitter.com/nontrads. The Nontraditional Student connection Twitter page. Links, Nontrad sites, more.
Computer Tutorials
 Here is one I just found via Facebook. It’s the Free Computer Tutorial Site: http://www.homeandlearn.co.uk/. Included here are free lesson on MS Excel and Word.
Here is another one linked via Facebook: http://computing.onlinecourse.com/ - the GoGoEd Basic Computing class online. This is also free. It covers web design, web pages, and other basic concepts like computer security.
Online Learning and Other Resources for Nontrads
*The Betsyanne site Internet Guide page for Seniors has some great links on it, like other links for learning, plus free classes and safety site links to protect your computer. This site page will be totally redone in a few days, since when I checked it, some sites were no longer active.
The Son of Citation Machine – an excellent website for doing citations for papers. Check it out. Citations here include MLA, APA, Turabian, and Chicago styles. http://citationmachine.net/
Back to School Moms – this nontrad site is mostly a collection of articles, but articles relating to the nontraditional students. It’s definitely worth a look. http://back2schoolmoms.com/
 *Free Lesson plans for teachers and teacher ed students http://www.betsyanne.com/for_teachers_b.html
College Prep 101 website – this website has some great links on saving money at college, interviews, ACT and SAT prep, and more scholarship how-to info. http://www.collegeprep101.com/
The Pick a Prof and ProfEval sites. These sites help you pick a professor by rating them and their classes. If you have not picked a college class yet, these sites are very helpful. http://www.myedu.com/ and http://www.profeval.com/home/chooseschool.asp - I have used the latter site more often. The school I went to, WKU, is listed there, plus lots more schools across the country.
Be looking for more sites here later. Hopefully these will get you started. And list your own for me to go and see. Thanks!

*And here is Issue #9 of the NT News. I write a bit about what it was like for me as a nontraditional student. Sometimes it's necessary to stop worrying and concentrate on "The Big Picture." 

Later, gators!

Nontraditionally Yours,

Knuckling down... a story from a friend

 I have a friend who posted about having a grade that she thought was too low, so she was going to knuckle down and start studying harder.
This meant cutting down on her social life, though. She told her friends about her decision, and plans to stick to it. That takes real courage! To me, it would sure be tempting to go ahead and rationalize about the effort she might need.

It would be easy to say, "Oh well... I can go out tonight and nothing will happen to my grade." Or "Well, it's not going to change anything to take a few days off and go somewhere with my friends..."

I have to admit... I have used these kinds of excuses to do things I want to do at the time. Of course, the real payment usually came later, when  I had to stay up late, or even miss class from sleeping in.

As a nontraditional student, I found it easier to stick with my assignments and studying. But a lot of people don't have the option of having a lot of study time to begin with.

So today I salute that student for doing what she had to do, and thinking about the rewards she would get later for studying harder and bringing up her grade.

Great job!

And kudos for all you nontraditional students out there who are trying their best, and giving up family time, friendship time, vacation time, and sleep time in order to do that.

-Betsyanne

Some more Nontrad links: The Nontrad site and blog Join Nontrads on Facebook Nontrads on Yahoo Nontrads on Twitter 

The possible study group drawing above is from one of my very favorite (and free!) clip art sites, Clkr.com.

YOUR best study tips...

Study Tips for Nontraditional Students - what are YOUR tips?

 I can list some of MY best study tips. And I will today. But I also would like to know yours. What helps you from day to day? What things have you learned since you started back to school?

I know that organization was key when I went back to school. Keeping everything in its place saved countless hours for me, especially when it was time to study for a quiz or test.

I no longer put every subject in the same folder. I used to think this would save time for me, because I would just grab one folder and always had paper in it no matter what.

But what would happen is that the notes from the different classes would get mixed up. And I would have to spend time moving them around too much.

Some other things that helped me as a nontraditional student were forming study groups, keeping a calendar that I carried with me all the time, sitting in the front of the class where I could hear the teacher better, getting phone numbers and names from other class members just in case, and using a highlighter on my notes.

I also used a new note-taking method, where I left a space at the left of my notes (and drew a vertical line down each page) so that I could jot down notes, add arrows, and note what the instructor said would possibly be on tests.

I also made sure I had extra pencils and pens, plus extra paper so I didn't run out. Some other students knew this and would borrow from me. I didn't mind that. I think it made me more popular!

What are some of YOUR tips and hints for studying better and smarter?
I would love to know them.

Thanks ahead of time!


-Betsyanne

Some Nontrad links: The Nontrad site and blog Join Nontrads on Facebook Nontrads on Yahoo Nontrads on Twitter